Ok, what will you do if you were I?
I used to get good mark for all lesson. and this semester I feel my school going like a hell. I can't get any good mark for all lesson. Ok, just like others I don't really care. but my parent really care about it. I got a paper of my marks report and I don't know how to tell them that I have decreasing of my intellegence. and surprisely, I can't hide this paper.So what I am gonna do? I hate to lie but I won't my parents angry?
[question posted by silvalestari]
responses and comments:
Show them the paper and let them yell. Then try to calmly explain to them why the grades are down. It isn't that you are becoming less intelligent. Maybe the classes are too difficult this year. Ask them, politely, if they ever had a tough time at school. Almost everyone has. So, maybe they will be more understanding. Plus, promise them that you will work harder to improve those grades for the next report card happy [fwidman]
Thank you I will try it [silvalestari]
It's not about your intelligence decreasing but there might be a good reason why that happens. If I am your parent, I won't give much attention to your marks as long as you pass. You can have all the high marks but in real life you fail financially, emotionally, and physically. That is worst. So I suggest that you be honest with your parents. Yes you can receive some scoldings in and out of there, but when it's done, you feel good for being honest with them. Take courage my dear!happy [learn2earn]
I worry I cant do it.. but I try...wish me luck!!! [silvalestari]
Your parents have a good reason to care because the better an education you have, the better paying jobs you will be hired for in the future and the better life you will have as all parents want for their children. Anyways you may as well be truthful and show them. I mean I'm sure this isn't the first or the last time they will get angry at you about something. Its part of life [cupkitties]
hey friend, first of all thanks for sharing your problem over here with friends like me over there.friend, tell the truth to your parent ,saw them the report of your marks too. i think they can also understand your problem.you can get low marks not for your less intelligence .it may be happen due to subjects ar tough.friend,tell me how much marks the other person get in your class.if they also get bad marks as compared to before.then,this will happen due to difficulty of subject. i think your parent understand and help you. have a nice day [yadav8797]
well whatever you may say about your brains being degraded.. the fact remains that your level of committment to studies have decreased... but coming to the matter at hand.. there is no way you're going to get out of this except doing it the hard way.. if you are ready to do what it takes to make your parents happy, then you can go straight to your parents and show them your marks and confess you did not care about your studies this semester, but you will do it better the next time and you should really mean it when you say this. They will yell at you and all but eventually they will take your word for that. But if you don't really mean it and make some lame excuse to escape from it this time, mark my words...years from now you'd be sulking over the greatest mistake you ever made in your life. [ralphido]
T_T yeah..., it is just because I often chat by MXIT at my study time!! [silvalestari]
Let me start by telling you that you are not decreasing your intelligence. There are many factors on why we fail or grades going down for a certain subject. It could be that the subject is too difficult for you and you need help on that or maybe your teacher is expecting too much from you. Another factor could be that your teacher is giving low grades too. Whatever the reason maybe, just show your paper to your parents to see their reaction. The longer you hide it from them, the longer will be your agony. Just show them and see how they react. If they asked you the reason, tell them the truth and just promise them that you'll try harder the next time. The reason they are expecting too much from you is because they believe in your capacity and they believe you can do it. Goodluck to you! [anneshirley]
Dear silvalestari, Tell them about your grades, and wait for their tantrum to be over. Patiently explain why your grades are what they are, and tell them that this was a slip and that it will never happen again. Let them really know how sorry you are. Sincerely, annabellaelizabeth [annabellaelizabeth]
You surely must be passionate,but it can reconcile those two thing if not matched in love to know that their parents cou always count. [Turista]
I suggest show them your report card to your parents. They have the right to know the truth whats happening to you and to know that really deserves that you continue your studies. Money nowadays are hard to find. Parents or people are really striving hard to send their kids to school. But at your case, you said you don't care at all to your grades at all. Then tell you parents that you don't like going to school anymore! For sure your parents will be very happy and sad at the time hearing that news. Happy, that their obligation is already ended sending their son to school. And no more pressure in seeking money to pay your tuition fees. Sad, because they will their son no education attained at all. Don't you know that I really really like to go to School and Graduate with a Degree! But my mom cannot send me to school because she cannot afford paying the tuition fees! But In your case your parents can afford to send you to school but their SON don't care at all. Shame on you! Your intelligence are decreasing because you don't have the passion to study hard at all. You only think is shopping, playing games and etc... I really really felt the pain and tears when you parents saw your grade falls! [kent_help2smile]